obviously it's ok when a total babeazoid does it

also when your dad winks at you, I guess that's acceptable

weigh in or die

Your above comments are accurate. Grandparents count, too.

I guess what I'm asking is, is it all in the wink? Are winks universally creepy to some of you?

I think they're awesome. I strive to be a good winker.

I always wonder what I look like when I wink. Do I look like I'm about to start seizing? Sometimes I have a really bad approximation of what I actually look like.

I guess I don't mind winks from REALLY cute boys. I'm a terrible winker, though. It feels so awkward LIKE I'M PRETENDING TO BE A SPECIAL KID OR SOMETHIN.

I've never winked at someone. I've never found myself in a situation where I felt it was appropriate.

The rule of thumb is, if I do it, it most definitely IS creepy.

I think whenever I have it's been a good, solid move. Never creepy at all.

It's not creepy when you *would* hit it.

When you try and make it creepy on purpose, and it becomes a parody. I never give a legitimate wink. And always point with my finger at the same time.

Creepy people winking = creepy.
Noncreepy people winking = noncreepy.