most of the songs i EXPECT to be played i dont want them to play.

These are all NO's in my book but they get played all the time:
electric slide
hand jive
chicken dance
paradise by the dashboard light
cha cha slide

anything from grease really. or SHOUT.

if i ever get married, the dj will be instructed that if he plays these he wont get paid.

It depends on the DJ. But at the two weddings I've been to, they've both been rent-a-DJs that played only parent-safe top40 hits. I really hope that the DJ at my friend's wedding this Saturday will not be one of those DJs.

Brick House!

songs that suck