I don't know though. They smoke A LOT of pot, knowing my mom was a cocaine addict addict and -that's- why I moved out at 16, and again at 18. The original agreement was that they wouldn't even keep it in the house. Then they did. So I told them to not smoke it here. Then I told them that they could smoke when my boyfriend and I aren't home. NOW I cleaned out the outside closet, and made it all comfy for them to smoke in, and they lecture ME about not compromising with their "needs"
They also eat ALL of my food. I spent my entire paycheck and birthday money on food, and they eat it instead of buying their own (I write "do not eat" on all of my food, but I guess they're illiterate).
My birthday party was last night, and one of my roommates was out of town. The other made plans with "his friends" instead of being here with our mutual friends. Then he came home high, and got pissed when I said he couldn't eat the food that MY friends made for MY birthday party, since he decided to not even show up, and he lives here.
I guess I really only have a problem with Nick. Aaron smokes, but he's not too bad. He smokes at his parents house, and then eats there too. But they're kind of a package deal because they have a weird bromance.
It just sucks that we all used to be friends, and now we're not.
Like the other day I got in a fight with Nick because we were carpooling to school, and he decided "not to go" because he got high the night before, and I had a midterm that day.
That sucks, man. If you guys had an agreement about the pot and they're still being so inconsiderate even though you've compromised completely, then I think it's ok to buck on the lease.
It sucks and it is kind of a dick move, but pot is a total deal-breaker for me, at least.
i dont think its really that dick of a move. I think you need to give them an ultimatum though. Explain it just like you did here and say look, if this doesnt change i can't stay here. Then at least they have the chance to change (even though they probably dont deserve it) or the chance to find someone to take over the lease at least. that way you don't feel as bad. but you shouldn't have to put up with that shit.
I would feel bad, and I am thinking about telling them soon. I don't care if they find someone else to move in- that's fine. I don't hate them, I just can't live here. They're just too irresponsible and childish. They're 22, and I'm 19, and I clean up after them like their mother. I have to fold their laundry, take dishes out of their bedrooms, and babysit their party guests because they always leave when they have parties, and I don't know a lot of their friends.
It's just too much, and they get really defensive when I try to talk to them about it.
kind of a dick move...
I don't know though.
They smoke A LOT of pot, knowing my mom was a cocaine addict addict and -that's- why I moved out at 16, and again at 18. The original agreement was that they wouldn't even keep it in the house. Then they did. So I told them to not smoke it here. Then I told them that they could smoke when my boyfriend and I aren't home. NOW I cleaned out the outside closet, and made it all comfy for them to smoke in, and they lecture ME about not compromising with their "needs"
They also eat ALL of my food. I spent my entire paycheck and birthday money on food, and they eat it instead of buying their own (I write "do not eat" on all of my food, but I guess they're illiterate).
My birthday party was last night, and one of my roommates was out of town. The other made plans with "his friends" instead of being here with our mutual friends. Then he came home high, and got pissed when I said he couldn't eat the food that MY friends made for MY birthday party, since he decided to not even show up, and he lives here.
I guess I really only have a problem with Nick. Aaron smokes, but he's not too bad. He smokes at his parents house, and then eats there too. But they're kind of a package deal because they have a weird bromance.
It just sucks that we all used to be friends, and now we're not.
Like the other day I got in a fight with Nick because we were carpooling to school, and he decided "not to go" because he got high the night before, and I had a midterm that day.
Ugh. Just ugh...
That sucks, man. If you guys had an agreement about the pot and they're still being so inconsiderate even though you've compromised completely, then I think it's ok to buck on the lease.
It sucks and it is kind of a dick move, but pot is a total deal-breaker for me, at least.
i dont think its really that dick of a move. I think you need to give them an ultimatum though. Explain it just like you did here and say look, if this doesnt change i can't stay here. Then at least they have the chance to change (even though they probably dont deserve it) or the chance to find someone to take over the lease at least. that way you don't feel as bad. but you shouldn't have to put up with that shit.
Only if you're not on the lease. If you are, you have to get them to sign you off, or they can force you to pay your share of the rentz.
I would feel bad, and I am thinking about telling them soon. I don't care if they find someone else to move in- that's fine.
I don't hate them, I just can't live here. They're just too irresponsible and childish. They're 22, and I'm 19, and I clean up after them like their mother. I have to fold their laundry, take dishes out of their bedrooms, and babysit their party guests because they always leave when they have parties, and I don't know a lot of their friends.
It's just too much, and they get really defensive when I try to talk to them about it.
+1 for ultimatum