And then, the fucking humongous testosterone fucker beat the crap out of jason and it was so not fucking cool. fucking huge ass redwood city motherfucker with steroid cock issues and a huge stick up his ass about fags and fucking UGH.

I'm such a fucking mess right now and I feel needy and screwed up. Jason had to take off for the night and I wish he didn't have to because I feel like a fucking mess. I don't think I let go of him at all since last night. There was just so much adrenaline and angry energy.

Everything had started out so great, too. I want to kill and break things very badly, but I am really trying to keep my shit together for tess.

Holy fuck, are you OK?

Obviously I understand the upcoming offer to be somewhat useless given my geographical distance but if there's anything I can do, please let me know.

Woah, that's fucked up.

Are you hurt very badly?

No, but jason's got a black eye and it's just fucked up. it really shouldn't have gone down like this.

Take pictures of the war wound. Play some music really loud. And heal up!

You have our best.

I'm fine, I really am.

I'm just laden with SERIOUS issues. My face is hardly even bruised, but it's just sore.

and you're friend is alright too???

that shit happens. if you'd been in my hood the motherfucker would have bled to death from a shitload of stabs from drugged out skinny kids. i'm sorry though, that shit sucks. it doesn't help to have to deal with it responsibly after the fact. good luck containing the rage.

I think the last time something like that happened to me, it was more emotionally than physically damaging.

Yeah. He's got a black eye, but he defended the fuck out of me and that kinda fucking rules. He got his ass completely pummeled.

Yeah, SJ... that's how I feel right now. It's not really okay. I want to seriously cry and kill at the same time.

Oh jesus :( I can't even imagine how you must feel, but all my best thoughts are with you. I know internets aren't the same...but you're not alone.

A shitton of people had to drag the steroided out fuck off jason. he had jason over a fucking truck at one and dented the hood with his head. fucking stupid fucking cock.

i know I talk hella shit sometimes, but no one deserves that shit. you don't fucking hit girls, FIRST OF ALL. And really, end of fucking story. you don't hit fucking girls.

Is there any way to locate this person again and stomp his ass?

Grrrrrr! I'm so angry FOR YOU. What a piece of shit.

Any idea who he is? If you can find out, Jason should press charges, and try to get the sick fuck off the streets before he does it again. And while a couple of swift baseball bat whacks to the side of his empty head sounds like what he deserves, being ass-raped in prison wouldn't hurt his homophobic ego much, either.

Seriously. But he kinda messed with the wrong chick, honestly. RWC is hecka small and people know who he is. He'll get what's fucking coming to his ass without involving the cops. I'm not really a fan of cops though I did call them last night before we finally got the cocksucker to take off.

Fuck me, that's awful. Sorry.

I'm so fucking angry.

Just hours earlier, I was texting count dante about how much fun we were having in redwood city, rock city. I bumped into this chick who I have always totally loved -- she was the drummer from bob's band's wife for a ton of years and she left him a couple years back. I haven't really seen her since, but now she is dating one of jason's friends and she looks so goddamn awesome and is so fucking happy. we were all squeeful and stoked to see each other. the show was totally awesome, even though the last band kinda wrecked the joint a little too much.

and then this shit had to happen.

What happened that caused the violence?

And, I'm sorry you got punched in the face/your friend got injured, obviously, and I'm glad you are okay.

Yeah, I'm curious to know how this went down.

And WHAT THE FUCK was that guy thinking, hitting a girl? You just don't do that.

did you even say a word to this douche?

Not getting the police & district attorney involved is your option, but just make sure you don't do something that winds up landing you or your friends in jail. Or worse. Tess is more important than this shit-for-brains. Though, I'm sure you already know that...

Also, sorry to hear about all this crap.

No you really just fucking don't.

Okay. So we were at this kid's birthday in redwood city and a bunch of punk and metal/grindcore bands were playing, mostly fucked up fun hardcore and stuff. Everything was super fun and stuff and the crowd was hectic and adrenaline rushed and jason's band played and they were fucking great. There was a ton of energy in the place and pretty much everyone was getting loaded and having a good time and getting stoned and stuff. We were pretty stoked, honestly, but there was definitely a ton of weird energy by the end of the night.

Midway through Pigs' set, the chick in the band disappears and comes back a few minutes later and announces that her sister got her bag stolen and was assaulted. Everyone was really concerned and pissed off. Pigs played another song and we all went outside to smoke and shit.

Then another band played and there was beer all over the floor and everyone was moshing around sliding all over the place. It was a little too much for the venue, so when they were done, we were all done. I went outside. I think pretty much everyone was out of smokes at this point and we're all trying to bum one of someone. I asked the huge dude for a smoke and he told me to blow him. Then someone else came out and asked him for a smoke and he did the same thing to them.

Then, he starts telling jason that go like this were "fucking great tonight" but that he (jason) was the gayest vocalist ever. fucking come on now. even if it is true, jason kicked some serious ass last night and was totally on. whatever, this guy was a douchebag. so jason says something along the lines of, "oh yeah, you thought that was gay..." and starts making out with our friend chris. dude gets even more pissed and is railing about faggots and whatever homophobic bullshit he can pull out of his too-tight ass and jason and chris walk away. my girlfriend and I were still standing by the door and kinda laughing at the dude and he's going off even more. I finally tell him that he should just take his steroided little dick home and he punches me in the face.

I freak the fuck out and tell jason and jason rushes him. but the dude was TREMENDOUS and my boyfriend is not a big dude. But he is totally angry and can sometimes hold his own, just on the energy. This dude was fucking HUGE. He beat jason's ass and it took a lot of people to drag him off him and make him leave.

Dude, your boyfriend is awesome for responding to the homophobic shit like that, and doubly awesome for standing up to that POOR EXCUSE FOR A MAN. fuck, what a totally psychotic thing to do. i hope someone gives him what he deserves.

Not only a douchbag, but a homophobic one. That makes it like 100 times worse, seriously. Fuck.

some peoples children need to be beaten with a sack full of doorknobs.

I'm sorry to hear about this, and I hope you and Jason are alright. I'll hold y'all in my thoughts.

n()mi says it's a good chance to file hate crime charges. As much as I disagree with hate crime laws this would be a good time to avail of them.

I'm glad to hear no one was seriously injured. A black eye heals.

a good size mob would solve this. . . . .

God that sucks.

Oh, sweet jeez. I am so sorry. I can't imagine you wouldn't win a case on this, as long as you have witnesses (and it sounds like you do), but no matter how you decide to deal with this, I hope that you feel better soon and that the idiot who punched you get a 10000x punch from the universe.

So sorry to hear.

It is obvious that your boyfriend is far truer measure of a man than whatever this dangerous and hating douchebag could ever hope to be.

I'm really glad to hear none of you were seriously injured - considering how out-of-control the dude seemed - and other people jumped in to pull that beast away from Jason.

Holy shit, B. That's a hell of a thing to happen and I hope you and yours are okay.

UGH. Nothing gets the nerves more raw than being punched in the face. Sorry to hear it, however, you can be smug thinking about what childhood trauma this guy went through in order to end up the way he did.

what the?!

Love you, I'm so sorry! That sounds horrendous.

thanks, all... it really was fucking awful. I feel better today than yesterday and just want to regroup.

Glad you're feeling better today. Hope you're both fully recovered and back in good spirits soon.

WHAT?! men that punch women should have that fist fucking cut off. end of story.

Hope you are doing better today, ss.

what a fucking pussy. if he's that angry and uptight naturally, it must be a real hell for him every day... but like Skanko said, he should still have his barbaric fist chopped. kudos to you and your boyfriend for standing up to him, but i'm sorry you had to go through that bullshit. what a little baby that guy was.

Damn, I'm sorry. That…well, that blows is such a weak phrase. But it does.