@erica: It's kinda both. Good in the sense that he knows my recent situation, understands I'm just distracting myself, & is keeping his distance emotionally, which is exactly what I need.
Bad in the sense that I'm pretty straightforward about what I want from him, and some would see that as being used... but so far I don't think he minds (I always wonder, do guys really mind being used for sex?) Until I get back to knowing myself again & figure out what I actually want in a relationship I'm not going to seek more than friendship & the occasional - to put it eloquently - booty call.
@bizzy: I think it's only "using" a person if you're NOT being straightforward about what you want. If both people are on the same page, no harm is done :)
Raise your hand if you're ready to go back to work tomorrow!!!!
*crickets*
hee hee
*crickets*
just stoppin' by again to say...
*crickets*
HEY ERICA!
*scares all the crickets away*
I wasn't ready to go back on Friday (on 2 hours of sleep), and I wasn't ready to come back today (on less than 2 hours of sleep).
I could seriously fall asleep at any mome
@bizzy: good grief. Why so little sleep? Was it all the crickets?
*katydids*
HEY TWIGBY!
@bizzy - shopping? Were you shopping?
@-j.: Thanksgiving turned into a late-night dance & sing to old CDs in our pajamas party with my neighbors/friends.
Last night also involved music, vodka, poetry, & Smooth-talkin Rebound Guy. *bow chicka bow wow*
@erica: God, no. Working in a mall has ruined the thrill of shopping in one.
@Mace: *bears*
@bizzy: all's well that ends with *bow chicka bow wow*. Glad you had such a nice long weekend ♥
Rebound guy?!?! I hope that's a good rebound and not a bad one!
@erica: It's kinda both. Good in the sense that he knows my recent situation, understands I'm just distracting myself, & is keeping his distance emotionally, which is exactly what I need.
Bad in the sense that I'm pretty straightforward about what I want from him, and some would see that as being used... but so far I don't think he minds (I always wonder, do guys really mind being used for sex?) Until I get back to knowing myself again & figure out what I actually want in a relationship I'm not going to seek more than friendship & the occasional - to put it eloquently - booty call.
@bizzy, Bah. If you're straightforward and upfront about it, and he's still going along with it, then he's not being used.
And... probably doesn't mind. There's a chance he's only hanging around in the hope it becomes something more. I don't know how often that happens.
@bizzy: I think it's only "using" a person if you're NOT being straightforward about what you want. If both people are on the same page, no harm is done :)
In other words, what sparky said more pithily.
I always take the pith.
*alwayth
Thankth for the inthight guyth!
(too much, sorry)
Pleathed to be of thome athithtanthe.